A New Church Shaped Like a High-Heeled Shoe Hopes to Attract Female Worshipers!!!

How Do We Get More Men to Come to Church?

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Hello World,

Just when I thought I have lived long enough to see almost half of everything since I’m 42 years old, something happens to let me know God’s mercies are new every morning!!! According to the Daily Mail, a new church, “a Cinderella-like high-heeled shaped house of God made almost entirely out of glass,” is slated to open in Taiwan, before Feb. 8, the Chinese New Year! Made out of 320 pieces of blue glass, the church is 55 feet tall, 36 feet wide and was constructed in over two months. Not only is the design of the church supposed to appeal to female worshipers, the church will also have 100 feminine features such as “ chairs for ‘lovers,’ maple leaves, biscuits and cakes – all ideal for romantic photographs,” according to Zheng Rongfeng, spokesman of the Southwest Coast National Scenic Area, in the article.

Gives new meaning to the verse “I have become all things to all people so that by all possible means I might save some.1 Corinthians 9:22…Below is a video about the church…

 

And this is my reaction…

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I don’t know what the stats are for Asian countries but stateside, there are more women going to church than men! According to ChurchForMen.com, “the typical U.S. Congregation draws an adult crowd that’s 61% female, 39% male. This gender gap shows up in all age categories,” and “this Sunday almost 25 percent of married, churchgoing women will worship without their husbands.”

Maybe Taiwan is on to something, would more men come to church if it was built like a giant football, a La-Z-Boy recliner or a flat-screen TV? I wonder what masculine features would make men swoon? Maybe chips and dip or wings and blue cheese would be served instead of communion? What if people yelled “Touchdown” instead of “Amen?” How about deaconnesses instead of deacons and they would wear high heels? The more I think about this, the more it seems that a Hooters restaurant would be ideal…

hootersMen, what say you?

Any thoughts?

The Top 10 Blog Posts and or Articles for Black Christian Women in December 2015

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Hello World,

As always, December was a whirlwind of a month, but I did manage to curate another list of interesting blog posts and or articles for black Christian women from last month that intrigued me as a black Christian woman ( but you don’t have be a black Christian woman to to check them out:) ! ) As usual, let me know if you like my list! Enjoy and share!

1.”Wheaton College Suspends Hijab-Wearing Professor After ‘Same God’ Comment” by Bob Smietana

Excerpt: Larycia Alaine Hawkins, an associate professor who has taught at Wheaton since 2007, announced last week that she’d don the traditional headscarf as a sign of human, theological, and embodied solidarity. “I stand in religious solidarity with Muslims because they, like me, a Christian, are people of the book,” she wrote in a Facebook post on December 10. “And as Pope Francis stated last week, we worship the same God.” See more at: christianitytoday.com.

2. “Modesty Lets Our Light Shine” by Kim Cash Tate

Excerpt: Last Saturday evening, Ayesha Curry, wife of NBA star Stephen Curry, was flipping through a Style Weekly and shared her observations with Twitter: Everyone’s into barely wearing clothes these days huh? Not my style. I like to keep the good stuff covered up for the one who matters. Those thoughts sparked a Twitter debate on the virtues — or lack thereof — of showing off one’s figure with bare clothing. One reply asked, “What’s wrong with not being covered up?” With only a few characters, Ayesha Curry, a professed believer in Jesus Christ, injected modesty — and salt and light — into the social stream. See more at: desiringgod.org.

3. “Church of God Pastor Becomes City’s First Black, First Woman Mayor” by Carl Stagner

Excerpt: “Sixty years ago, Rosa Parks sat down so I could stand up today.” Pastor Rochelle Robinson’s words reflect a strong sense of both gratitude and accomplishment for her historic win. She never set out to make a name for herself or capture the attention of the national media. All she wanted to do was serve God and her community. But when the votes were tallied in the runoff election on December 1, Rochelle Robinson became the first African American and first female ever to be elected mayor of Douglasville, Georgia. See more at: chognews.org.

4. “10 Women in Politics in Africa You Didn’t Read About in 2015” by Omono Eremionkhale

Excerpt: Popularly called Mama Anambra, Virginia Ngozi Etiaba will go down in history as the very first democratically elected governor in Anambra state from November 2, 2006 to June 13, 2007. As governor, she flagged-off several road projects and invested heavily in the state’s Orient Petroleum Company. She was reluctant to take oath of office after her boss, Peter Obi had been impeached on grounds of gross misconduct. She however transferred power to Obi when the impeachment was annulled by the appeal court. In 2012, she released a book; My Life, My Story: Autobiography of Nigeria’s First Female Governor, which chronicles her life and her political journey. She once said; “If a woman is given the chance to rule Nigeria, the country will be corruption free, as only less than one percent of women are corrupt. Nigerians should pray for an era when a woman will come on board to rule this country.” See more at: venturesafrica.com.

5. “Babbie Mason, Steve Amerson at Mims Baptist This Sunday” by Sondra Hernandez
Excerpt: She tells this story of how she got her start. “It was the summer of 1980 and I’d just moved to Georgia,” she said. “There was a big church around the corner, Mount Paran Church. My husband said we’ve got to get you to do a concert there.” At the time she already had one album out. The head pastor was a very busy man, there was a 90-day wait to see him, she said. She called it a mega church back before there were mega churches. Being persistent they ask to see a music minister and others. Finally the singles minister saw them. “He took my album and I kind of had the feeling ‘don’t call us, we’ll call you,’” she said. “But I noticed there was a big piano in the hall and I asked him if I could play just one song for myself. He agreed. He came out of his office and said ‘What are you doing tomorrow night?”, I said ‘nothing’,” he said ‘Come play for the singles meeting.’” At that meeting she met a man who owned a coffeehouse, that man asked her to play at his coffeehouse. A pastor heard her play at the coffeehouse and ask her to play at his church. She says that’s how it has all happened for 32 years in ministry. See more at: yourhoustonnews.com.

6. “Mattiwilda Dobbs, Pathbreaking Operatic Soprano, Dies at 90” by Emily Langer

Excerpt: Like many African-American opera singers born in the early part of the 20th century, she was first fully recognized for her talent not in the United States, but rather in Europe — an ocean away from the Jim Crow South where she had grown up singing in her First Congregational Church choir in Atlanta and listening to the black contralto Marian Anderson. Ms. Dobbs’s father, an organizer of early voter-registration drives for blacks, saw to it that she and her five sisters attended college. A series of scholarships helped finance her musical training and took her to Europe, where, while singing as a concert recitalist, she won the International Music Competition in Geneva, Switzerland, in 1951. See more at: washingtonpost.com.

7. “Alva James-Johnson: Preserving Black Institutions”

Excerpt: The next day, I was even more inspired as I stood at the ribbon cutting for a brand new media center that was built for the communications department. The center is named after Leroy and Lois Peters, a black couple who donated $1.2 million for the project. When it was over, I spoke briefly with Lois, thanking her for her sacrifice. She told me it was something she and her husband never thought they could do. But they prayed for God to bless their Maryland-based home health care business, and it all came to pass. Prior to the Oakwood project, the couple also helped build a music education center at another university with a $1 million contribution. See more at: ledger-enquirer.com.

8. “God Is a 24/7 Personal Trainer” by Erin Beresini

Excerpt: “Amen!” say the women who just sat down in the front row. By the time Dan’s done introducing himself, keynote speaker Pastor Debra B. Morton of New Orleans’ Greater St. Stephen Full Gospel Baptist Church arrives with an entourage. Pastor D, a local celebrity looking trés on fleek in a grey dress, black pumps, and big gold hoops, ascends the stage and tells a story about how her 65-year-old husband runs an hour a day. Because he exercises, his cancer surgery (type unspecified) went much better than it would have otherwise, and now he’s seven years cancer-free. “God just kept saying to us how important health and fitness was,” she says. “I felt a commitment to the African American community—our church is 90 percent African American—and I just saw people who couldn’t walk to the altar for prayer.”  See more at: outsideonline.com.

9. “‘Stained-Glass Ceiling’ For Women Clergy”

Excerpt: Chaves says only about 11% of congregations are led by women.  He’s been looking at this issue since his first study in 1998. “But I would have thought that the groups where there are more women, basically a mainline protestant groups, also black churches where there is an increase in women ministers, I would have thought those increases would be enough to move the needle in the national scene, but they’re not,” said Chaves. See more at: wunc.org.

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10. “Standing in Solidarity: A Faith-Rooted Call to Action With and for Black Women and Girls” by Andrew Wilkes

Excerpt: For communities of color and of faith, standing with black women and girls is more than a desirable ideal — it is a moral obligation and sacred opportunity. Last weekend, a national planning team launched a campaign to stand with black women and girls under the organizing hashtag of #StandwithBWG. This networked undertaking of public education is a month-long effort of using liturgy, advocacy for equitable public policy, and digital engagement to prioritize the well-being of women of color. It is an effort designed to support, not supplant, the existing leadership and advocacy of black women and girls on their own behalf.

The call to action is for black congregations of faith to move beyond special occasion advocacy — wherein Women’s Day, Mother’s Day, or a publicized crisis generate temporary support — to sustained advocacy for black women and girls that situates their health, happiness, and wholeness within the sediment and sinews, the pulpit and pews, of our sanctuaries. See more at: huffingtonpost.com.

If you know of any black Christian women bloggers and or writers, please e-mail me at jacqueline@afterthealtarcall.com as I’m always interested in expanding my community of black Christian women blogs and websites. As I noted before, while this is a roundup of interesting blog posts and or articles for black Christian women, you don’t have to be one to appreciate these pieces :).

Any thoughts?

 

 

 

 

 

Historic Ebenezer Baptist Church Pastor Proposes to Girlfriend During Watch Night Service! (VIDEO)

Why You Should be at Watch Night Service Next Year...

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Hello World,

If you’re in the A, you may already know the news, but since my audience is worldwide ( 🙂 ), I hope I’m the first to bring you the news! Rev. Dr. Raphael Warnock, senior pastor of Atlanta’s Historic Ebenezer Baptist Church, the “spiritual home of The Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.” preached the Watch Night Service that will probably go down as the most romantic Watch Night Service of all times. At the end of the two-hour service, Rev. Dr. Warnock (who sounded a bit hoarse from preaching I guess or maybe it was nerves considering what he was about to do next) acknowledges Mrs. Christine King Farris, the longest serving member of Ebenezer and sister of Dr. King and people from his circle including his siblings, a friend from high school and one of his best friends who “know [him] before [he] was Rev. Dr.” BEFORE introducing the church to a Miss Ouleye Ndoye about the 2:07 mark of the video below.

He says that “Morehouse men don’t get far without Spelman women.”  He goes on to say Ndoye, who is a graduate of Spelman, Oxford and Columbia, is the “one of the most brilliant people I know” and the tone of his voice lowers a bit before completing his statement with “and one of the most beautiful people I’ve ever seen” after which a collective “Oh” comes from the congregation…

Then he walks over to her at which some woman in the congregation says, “Uh oh, Pastor?” And then many members of the congregation armed with cell phones vacate the pews, furiously corralling themselves around the pastor and his special guest like he is a football player about to score a touchdown! (I saw “Concussion” last night so football motifs are on the brain. A must-see movie by the way!) He responds with, “Why y’all carrying on like this?” in the midst of the commotion. And the same woman it seems yells, “Go head pastor! Work it pastor!” “Can I talk?” says the Ebenezer Baptist Church pastor finally before beginning his proposal.

Obviously inspired by the words Indian poet Rabindranath Tagore, Pastor Warnock recites his words to Ndoye, who is seated, as he stands before her.

“Those who are near me do not know that you are nearer to me than they are. Those who speak to me do not know that my heart is full with your unspoken words. Those who crowd in my path do not know that I am walking alone with you. Those who love me do not know that their love brings you closer to my heart.”

And then he quotes from the Word, reciting Proverbs 18:22 with a sweet twist as he pulls out a red jewelry box from one of his front jacket pockets.

“The Bible says that he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.  So, will you do me a favor and be my good thing? Will you marry me?”

Pastor Warnock, who is on bended knee by the end of his words, had to stop for a moment the applause was so loud but he was able to get the words of his proposal out. Ndoye, who is trembling and intermittently clasping her hands around her face, responds by saying, “Yes, I will.”

All this time, I thought that Rev. Dr. Warnock, who became senior pastor of the church as a single man in 2005, was like Paul and had the gift of singleness. But as it turns out, he was just waiting for his “good thing” to arrive 🙂

Congratulations to the beautiful couple!

This Watch Night Service proposal reminds me on an episode of “Sex and the City” when Charlotte, who has converted Judaism to be a suitable marriage candidate for her Jewish boyfriend Harry, but they have a fight before he proposes. Still, Charlotte, who was serious about her conversion despite the breakup, goes to a Jewish mixer for singles where she bumps into Harry, who has by that time forgiven her for the fight. He proposes to her in the middle of mixer! One of the single Jewish women, who watches the proposal, responds by saying, “I’m so coming back next week!”

Maybe if more women knew they could score a marriage proposal (the football motif returns) at a Watch Night Service in church rather popping champagne  in the club, they would show up there  instead for their NYE festivities 🙂

Watch the whole service or just the proposal (which begins around the 2:07 mark below) below! Happy New Year Y’all!

Any thoughts?

P.S. UPDATE: Rev. Dr. Raphael Warnock and Ouleye Ndoye are now married as of Valentine’s Day 2016! Read the story – Why Wait? Historic Ebenezer Baptist Church Pastor Marries on Valentine’s Day After NYE Proposal (VIDEO)!